(Source: leawrences)

deviantfemme:

**stop pretending that the pain you inflict on others is romantic**
Or that you used them for your own self-growth or for a learning experience. Stop pretending that your abuse is an expression of love. Don’t allow entitled people to make it seem like it’s your fault that you were confused when the person who told you that they loved you also hurt you. 

#the non consensual kind of pain #abuse #tw #domestic violence
Nor is there anything poetic in gaining another’s trust only for you to exploit their vulnerabilities because you feel as though it’s your responsibility to teach them self growth for your own benefit. You are not a saviour. Do not allow anyone to ever make you feel as though you’re too much and not enough all at the same time. It is also not your fault if they refuse to hold themselves accountable for the pain they have caused. You are allowed to be here, and your feelings are valid. It is okay to let go.

deviantfemme:

**stop pretending that the pain you inflict on others is romantic**

Or that you used them for your own self-growth or for a learning experience. Stop pretending that your abuse is an expression of love. Don’t allow entitled people to make it seem like it’s your fault that you were confused when the person who told you that they loved you also hurt you. 

Nor is there anything poetic in gaining another’s trust only for you to exploit their vulnerabilities because you feel as though it’s your responsibility to teach them self growth for your own benefit. You are not a saviour. Do not allow anyone to ever make you feel as though you’re too much and not enough all at the same time. It is also not your fault if they refuse to hold themselves accountable for the pain they have caused. You are allowed to be here, and your feelings are valid. It is okay to let go.

(Source: bamhbies)

Do not feel sorry for me.
I mean, who really got the raw
end of the deal here?
I only lost you: a lying, frightened,
using and abusive poor
excuse for a human being.
And you lost me.

Beau Taplin || The raw end of the deal. 

(Source: afadthatlastsforever)

juandesola:

Las fronteras son el principio de la desigualdad. A un lado y otro las cosas pueden ser muy distintas, como de hecho así es. Se encuentran repartidas por medio mundo obviando la necesidad humana de prosperar de tropezar con una mínima oportunidad a personas ahogadas en la inmundicia por la pobreza e injusticia social.

La reflexión parece más sencilla y compresible de construir que su puesta en práctica. A día de hoy, invitar a los cambios sociales no es lo mismo que, quienes tiene competencia y poder para ello, vayan  a propiciarlos .

En todo momento, sin excepciones, se sientes devorados por una mezcla de ambición y avaricia que hace olvidar que: “También hay sueños a este lado” / “Estoy en el límite” - zona mexicana de la frontera México-Estados Unidos Frontera. 

(Source: mimacondo)

The world must accept her on her own terms or not at all.

—Duncan Grant, on the suicide of Virginia Woolf  (via violentwavesofemotion)

(Source: airmail)

There comes a point where you just go, ‘Ultimately, I don’t really give a fuck anymore.’

—Helena Bonham Carter  (via thatkindofwoman)

(Source: alyssajacquelyn)

I’m not your girlfriend. I’m not your wife. I’m not your lover. I don’t need to text you back if I don’t want to. An excuse isn’t required of me if my answer is no. I am not sorry. If something makes me uncomfortable, I don’t need to justify reasons why. I will not hold your hand. I know how soft my skin is. I will warn you before I’m rude. If you persist, it is no concern of mine if your feelings are hurt. This does not make me mean. This does not make me a bitch. This makes me a human being only trying my best to exist. I am not here to make your world better. I am not here to make you feel better about yourself. I am not your escape.

(Source: teenytimes)

(Source: wildestwoods)